Comments on: Respecting Teachers and Mentors

By: Katie

Katie — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 19:21:17 +0000

I think you make an interesting point about friends vs enemies vs followers. I agree with you but I never quite sorted it out that clearly. I will say though, from my experience as a teacher, striking a balance between “friend” and “follower” students is often important to keep the classroom in order. Maybe not so much at higher levels, but definitely with kids, that balance is crucial or nothing will get accomplished during the day! That’s probably because most kids need structure (some kind of authority) to guide and motivate them, whereas college and older students know how to create that structure for themselves.

I think I’m babbling, so I’ll end here. 今日も頑張ってね！

By: Christopher G.

Christopher G. — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 03:56:49 +0000

Ever since I’ve been into Japanese culture, I’ve had an interest in the idea of filial piety. Despite the idea being very ancient (read: outdated), I thought it was a very interesting idea and felt that there wasn’t enough of it in American society — at least in the areas of respecting those around you, such as teachers, bosses, colleagues, etc.

Don’t get me wrong, I much prefer a friendly, equal environment over one where I must tread carefully, but I still feel there should naturally be respect for others. When I was a student (and in the working world, for that matter), I witnessed a lot of my peers and colleagues too easily talk back or use some impolite language to and around their teachers and bosses. I mean, it’s one thing to be casual, but I feel curse words are a big no-no in that sort of setting.

Hmm, I had a lot more to say, but I’m having a bit of trouble composing it to words. Maybe I’ll add more later. Anyway, that’s my opinion on respect in America, at least!

By: Hiroaki Asakawa

Hiroaki Asakawa — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 20:24:20 +0000

I think it’s the mentality. Working for Suwa’s, everyone has been working there longer than I have. I don’t know why, but there’s only one person that kind of has the whole hierarchy attitude. Everybody else, they talk to me very politely. After a while though, that turns into a very casual and friendly tone. Me personally I like it that way. This hierarchy just makes it so that people can’t form a friendship. It’s just a very big obstacle. But I really think that the kiss-asses are only going to be viewed as a kiss ass. For example. Let’s say that a high school class got the opportunity to meet the prime minister. He comes to class and talks about stuff. Then school ends and as you leave you get the chance to pay your respects. Let’s say everybody did what they were taught to do; talk very politely and bow. But then imagine this one kid being like, “Sup man. Keep doing your thang. PEACE!” Who is he going to remember most? Was that child being discourteous? In that sense, I think the hierarchy is a blessing. It gives you more chance to stand out. It allows others to realize quickly, “This guy is different.” I think that’s a great plan: Standing out without being discourteous. If people think you are discourteous for not acting traditionally, then they are most likely the people who just want the satisfaction of being the senpai. Avoid those people right? Let’s create a new era. Let’s make a guideline for the next generation to follow. We shall call it “The Equality Movement”.